Jesus expands the commandment "Do not murder" to include anger and unresolved conflict. He teaches that anger toward others is a form of heart-level violence, just as harmful as physical actions. Jesus calls us to reconcile quickly, emphasizing that broken relationships hinder our worship and spiritual growth. True righteousness goes beyond outward behavior; it involves cultivating a heart of love, forgiveness, and peace. Jesus challenges us to resolve conflict, make peace with others, and reflect God’s grace in our relationships before anger takes root.

James 1:19–20 NIV¹⁹ My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, ²⁰ because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.

• If I want to be RIGHT with God, I need to get RIGHT with others

When I leave ANGER unchecked…

It gets bigger than I expect

Matthew 5:21–22 NIV²¹ “You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ‘You shall not murder, and anyone who murders will be subject to judgment.’ ²² But I tell you that anyone who is angry with a brother or sister will be subject to judgment. Again, anyone who says to a brother or sister, ‘Raca,’ is answerable to the court. And anyone who says, ‘You fool!’ will be in danger of the fire of hell.

It gets in the way of  Worship

Matthew 5:23–24 NIV²³ “Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, ²⁴ leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift.

It gets worse over time

Matthew 5:25–26 NIV²⁵ “Settle matters quickly with your adversary who is taking you to court. Do it while you are still together on the way, or your adversary may hand you over to the judge, and the judge may hand you over to the officer, and you may be thrown into prison. ²⁶ Truly I tell you, you will not get out until you have paid the last penny.

NOW WHAT?

1. Deal with Anger Directly
2. Deal with Anger Quickly

• Am I justifying unchecked anger? (Do I excuse my temper instead of addressing it?)
• Am I holding onto  bitterness/offense? (Who am I holding a grudge against?)
• When I’m angry, what do my words sound like? (Do I bring life or destruction?)