Matthew 10:26-31

Fear The Lord

Ross Yamamoto, November 16, 2025, 44 min From the Matthew series

Jesus anchors his followers in the fear of the Lord so they will not live in the fear of man. In Matthew 10:26-31, as he sends the disciples out, Jesus tells them not to fear those who can kill the body, to fear the one who holds soul and body, and to remember that the Father counts every hair on their heads. What we fear is what we worship, so the cure for fear and comparison is to compare ourselves to the Lord.

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Message notes

Pastor Ross Yamamoto continues our verse-by-verse series in Matthew, joking that Pastor Pat gave him a passage near and dear to his heart. Going through the Bible verse by verse means we don’t skip anything, but Ross warns that we can read the words and still miss the person. “We can read the Bible, we can study the Bible, but we can miss the man.”

He sets up Matthew 10 with the last verse of chapter 9, where Jesus tells the disciples to ask the Lord of the harvest to send out workers. Prayer isn’t mostly about our lists; it aligns us with God’s will. Ross talks about the Friday night prayer and worship he has led for years, and how hard it is to build a prayer culture because prayer is not mostly about us. He doesn’t want guilt to bring anyone. He cares that hearts are burning with first love for Jesus. “Your heart changes to what you pray for.”

Ross recaps the anchors Jesus gave the disciples before sending them out: authority over demons and sickness, specific instructions, an honest warning of beatings, betrayal and death, the promise that the Spirit would speak through them, and the comfort that their master would suffer too. He says suffering for Jesus can be within God’s will, pointing to the apostles and believers in Nigeria, Iran and China today.

Then he reads Matthew 10:26-31. Because Jesus is the one sending them, they don’t need to fear people, and what he tells them in the dark they should proclaim in the light. Ross calls his quiet time a daily encounter. Some of what he hears is just for him, but if the gospel isn’t leaking out, we go stale, like bread left on the counter. He has sometimes spent hours with the Lord over a single word. “I’m not trying to get through the Bible. I’m trying to meet a person.”

The big anchor is verse 28: don’t fear those who can kill the body, fear the one who can destroy soul and body in hell. “What we fear is what we worship.” He tells the Lord’s word to him: stop comparing yourself to other people and compare yourself to me. He remembers paddling out on a huge North Shore day with professional surfers, because he figured he was better than the two friends with him. He barely made it in and lay on the sand thanking God. It taught him he controls nothing.

He closes with Colossians 1:16-17. Everything holds together in Christ. There is a heaven and a hell, and for those covered by the blood of Jesus, death is only the beginning.

From the message

We can read the Bible, we can study the Bible, but we can miss the man.

Ross Yamamoto Watch this moment, at (2:42)

Your heart changes to what you pray for.

Ross Yamamoto Watch this moment, at (11:41)

I’m not trying to get through the Bible. I’m trying to meet a person.

Ross Yamamoto Watch this moment, at (26:19)

What we fear is what we worship.

Ross Yamamoto Watch this moment, at (29:01)

Life Group discussion guide

Fear The Lord, Matthew 10:26-31. November 16, 2025.

Start here

What is the closest you have come to real danger, out in the ocean, on the road or anywhere else?

Read Matthew 10:26-31

Open your Bibles and read it out loud together before you start.

What does it say?

  1. In Matthew 10:26-27, why does Jesus tell the disciples not to be afraid, and what does he tell them to do with what he has told them in private?

  2. According to verse 28, who should we not fear, and who should we fear instead?

  3. What do the sparrows and the hairs on our heads in verses 29-31 tell us about the Father?

What does it mean?

  1. Jesus had just told the disciples they would be arrested, flogged and hated (Matthew 10:16-22). Why would that make the fear of the Lord such an important anchor?

  2. Proverbs 9:10 says the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. How does comparing ourselves to the Lord, instead of to other people, lead to wisdom?

  3. Colossians 1:16-17 says all things hold together in Christ. How does that change what we think keeps our lives and families safe?

What do we do with it?

  1. Pastor Ross said financial fear often means we worship money, and fear of being alone means we worship relationships. Which fear shows up most in your life right now?

  2. Where do you compare yourself most, on social media, at work or in ministry, and what would change if you compared yourself to the Lord instead?

  3. What would it take to move from getting through a Bible reading to meeting with Jesus each day, and who could you share what he shows you with this week?

Pray

Ask God to replace your fear of people and circumstances with a holy fear of him, and pray for workers for the harvest, including the courage to speak about Jesus to someone this week.

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We meet at 9 AM in the Kaiser High School cafeteria. Kids from 6 months through 5th grade have their own class, so you can listen to the whole message.

See you Sunday.