Matthew 1:21-23
Christmas Eve 2025
Christmas tells us that God comes close. Matthew 1:21-23 names Jesus as the one who will save his people from their sins and calls him Immanuel, God with us. The manger says God is with us, the cross says he wants us with him, and his nearness brings the peace, joy, hope and love we cannot find on our own.
Message notes
The Christmas Eve message reads Matthew 1:21-23 together: Jesus will save his people from their sins, and he will be called Immanuel, God with us. Pastor Pat says that of all the names God could be known by, this one sits at the center of the season and of our faith. God is not a distant God, and he is not an “I hope you figure it out” God. He comes close.
Pat admits that his family’s Christmas movie list runs from Home Alone and Elf to Lord of the Rings, and that he grew up on National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation. Under all the chaos, Clark Griswold is a dad who just wants his family together. There is something powerful about being near each other.
The four weeks of Advent did not end with the manger. Jesus starts the story there, finishes it on the cross, continues it in the resurrection and invites us to prepare for his return. The manger says, “I’m with you.” The cross says, “I want you to be with me.”
Pat walks through Romans 5. We have peace with God through Jesus, and that peace happens up close. Many people come to church feeling uneasy, sure God doesn’t want them near. Pat tells them God is not primarily upset with them. We tend to distance ourselves when we’re upset, but God saw a problem and drew near. Joy follows, a joy we can have even in trials. The first announcement of Jesus went to a pregnant teenager and to shepherds, people without power, so the message is for everyone who has felt far away.
Hope, Paul says, grows through endurance and character, in the middle of real life. Pat tells a personal story. After his dad died, his mom wasn’t ready to sleep in her bedroom, so she slept in the living room. Without talking about it, Pat and his brother brought their blankets and pillows and slept there with her for close to a year, through Christmases and birthdays. None of them had an answer for the loss, but they were in it together. Wherever we feel most alone, he says, God is reminding us we are not alone.
Love anchors it all. When the songs stop and the decorations go back in the box, the love of Jesus remains. Pat invites people to begin a relationship with Jesus, and the night ends with candlelight, a reminder that his light lives in us and is meant to be shared.
From the message
God is not primarily upset with you tonight.
Peace happens in close proximity with a God who loves you.
See, the manger says that God is with us, but the cross says, I want you with me.
Life Group discussion guide
Christmas Eve 2025, Matthew 1:21-23. December 24, 2025.
Start here
What is one Christmas tradition from your family, polished or chaotic, that you still remember?
Read Matthew 1:21-23
Open your Bibles and read it out loud together before you start.
What does it say?
In Matthew 1:21, what name is the child given, and what does the angel say he will do?
According to Matthew 1:22-23, what prophecy does this fulfill, and what does the name Immanuel mean?
What does it mean?
The first announcements about Jesus went to a pregnant teenager and to shepherds. Why might God have chosen people with no social or economic power?
Pastor Pat said the manger says “I’m with you” and the cross says “I want you with me.” Why does the Christmas story need the cross to be complete?
What do we do with it?
Where in your life do you feel most alone or distant from God right now? What would it look like to invite Jesus into that place?
Pastor Pat said hope grows in the middle of real life, not after the problem is fixed. What disappointment from this year do you need to bring to Jesus?
Pray
Thank God that he came close in Jesus. Ask him to meet you in the place where you feel most alone, and to fill you with the peace, joy, hope and love that only come from being near him.
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